The cat pictured above is Alley….the man in my life. 🙂 I like to say I found him as a kitten, but the truth is, he found & chose me. He knew, at only weeks old, the void I had in my life, the way he could fill it & that even though I had this “block” in my heart, that he could break it down. Ok, maybe he was just really hungry. 🙂
Alley & I have been together now for about 12 years…..the longest relationship outside of blood related family that I have ever had. He has shared in all the highest moments of my adult years & also in the lowest. He has stuck by my side during my crabby days, my heart broken days, my living paycheck to paycheck days and also through my sick & injured days. He has been my constant…..the one living creature that no matter what, would love me, rely on me and in some instances, console me.
People talk about soul mates……I have come to believe that not only can a person have more than a single soul mate in their lifetime, but that soul mates can also include animals.
Alley KNOWS me…..he knows, just by looking at me, if I am in a crabby mood & adjusts his actions accordingly. He also knows when I am in a great mood & by the twinkle in his eyes & his abundance of purring, he shares in my good mood & successes. He knows when I am not feeling well & will simply just be near me to offer comfort.
Alley is, without a doubt, one of my soul mates.
When I travel, I ALWAYS have a picture of him w/me (not always a hard copy, but a pic of him on my phone, iPod or digital camera). When I arrive home from work, if he is not by the front door waiting for me, I worry & go looking for him. When 10:30am rolls around, I know to expect him at my feet rubbing & purring & using his good looks to try & convince me that it’s “12pm somewhere” & that I should feed him his lunch early. And without fail, every night as I lay my head down on my pillow, Alley is curled up right next to my head…..and I fall asleep to his rhythmic & soothing purrrr.
Alley is, without a doubt, one of my soul mates.
I have a certain “voice” I use with Alley when I speak to or about him. When I make plans of any kind (simple day trips or extensive), I always consider his well being first. When money has been tight, I have survived on bare minimums, but Alley’s favorite kibble & soft food were NEVER jeopardized. The very thought of loosing him or harm in any way finding it’s way to him will immediately cause my eyes to swell with tears.
Alley is, without a doubt, one of my soul mates.